When someone asks what kind of gift you want, it can be tricky to respond appropriately. You don’t want to appear rude or disinterested in them while also not receiving something you don’t really need or desire.
An ideal approach would be to prepare a wish list and present it to anyone who requests one as a possible present idea.
Be Honest
Be candid about what you want when someone asks what gift you would like; being open about your preferences increases the odds that someone will buy you something that truly matches what you desire – as well as save them both time and money by not needing to search endlessly for the ideal present! If an expensive item is out of the question, consider group gifts with various price ranges or requesting that multiple gift ideas are considered together instead.
Gifts that fall outside your desired preferences but you still like should be handled in an amicable manner by thanking and making light of the situation. Offering to re-gift it may also allow them to give something that wasn’t completely wasted of their time and money to someone else or donate it directly.
Men can be more difficult to shop for when it comes to gifts than women due to their preference for practical over sentimental items. If a gift from a man doesn’t meet your preferences, politely decline and explain why: for instance, perhaps you already own it or it doesn’t match your color/size preference.
If a close friend or relative presents something to you as a present, it would generally be impolite and disrespectful for you to complain that it doesn’t fit with what you want or expect. Doing so would come across as rude and inconsiderate if that person is close. In such an instance, private discussions with them might be needed on how best to manage gifts in future.
Provide a List
If you want to avoid appearing selfish or greedy, one way of responding can be providing a list of gifts you would prefer – giving the giver plenty of options while guaranteeing they get you something truly enjoyable.
Make sure that you include items of various price points so the recipient can choose a gift within their budget without feeling restricted by restrictions such as size. This way, they will find something perfect!
Not only can you provide a list of gifts, but you can also ask for an experience. From spa days to concert tickets, this will not only make them feel special but will be something they remember fondly over time.
Ask for an Experience
If someone asks what gift you’d like for Christmas or other occasions, it is usually appropriate to provide some general guidelines. For instance, you might respond with something like “I would love it if you took me on a weekend getaway.” Alternatively, suggest spending more time together as a way of getting something. You could suggest inviting them out more often for hangout sessions, calling or texting more regularly or posting photos to social media more frequently as gifts from them – just remember it’s sometimes hard not coming across rude. Always thank them for their efforts even if the present doesn’t necessarily meet expectations! Despite any disagreements between parties involved – always show gratitude regardless.
Mention a Donation
If someone truly wishes to give you something meaningful for a gift-giving occasion, they might offer more than simply purchasing an object – for instance they could donate directly to your organization instead. In such an instance, make sure they know this when asking what your wish list looks like as it will show that they are supporting something worthwhile! It will also demonstrate their generosity toward causes dear to both parties involved.
When broaching the subject of donations, be sure to use “gift framing” rather than just saying “donation.” Studies have demonstrated that using gift language increases donor motivation and overall generosity. Furthermore, don’t mention donations without explaining why it matters and how their gift will contribute towards your cause.
An effective way to deliver this information is via card. This makes a perfect option for holidays, birthdays, condolences and other important milestones as it keeps messages brief and direct while giving gift givers an easy way to donate without searching through websites for buttons and links.
If the gift-giver is reluctant to donate, that’s fine; they might prefer giving something they know will meet a need or want. In this situation, remind them that giving now will still have an impact in the future by setting appropriate expectations and helping people select meaningful presents for themselves – this way everyone benefits! Have fun gifting!
Be Mindful of the Person’s Budget
Gift-giving can be an amazing way of showing someone you care, as long as the gesture truly expresses who they are and the relationship. Additionally, be mindful of their budget when selecting gifts; forcing someone else to spend more than they can afford may cause unnecessary discomfort for both of you – not the desired gesture!
When someone asks what you would like for a gift, providing ideas is helpful in narrowing their options and finding something appropriate. Furthermore, functional and useful gifts have proven more appreciated by recipients than items that simply sit around collecting dust.
If you are having difficulty choosing what to give, ask about their hobbies or interests to gain some insight into what type of gift would suit them best. For instance, if they enjoy coffee you could purchase them a personalized mug; otherwise you could opt for indoor plants or experiences such as tickets to sporting events as great choices.
If you are uncertain of what to buy, be honest by saying something like, “I don’t know, I’m open to anything!” Instead, offer help by running errands or caring for their pets as ways of showing your appreciation.